My Perfect Man Checklist

Quirks, Traits & Imperfections:

My Perfect Man:

• laughs unpredictably and often
• pursues awe and beauty
• appreciates a good vodka martini
• enjoys lazy Sundays
• has a bit of a “superhero” hidden inside
• has perfected the art of the catnap
• can easily quote ridiculous cartoon and quirky movie lines
• gives me piggy back rides
• can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry
• drinks his coffee black

Morals, Values, & Character

My Perfect Man:

• allows me to be myself
• is simply who he claims to be
• nurtures his loved ones
• respects the things that I care about
• knows that “he” is bigger than any addiction, disability or trauma
• is open-minded and tolerant
• is willing to feel, experience, participate and risk
• treats people well

Age, Appearance & Hygiene:

My Perfect Man:

• turns heads when he walks down the street
• has a smile that lights up a room
• is between the ages of ____ and____
• has an interestingly shaped ____________
• is comfortable in his own skin

Financial, Career & Education:

My Perfect Man:

• is financially self-sufficient
• has a professional career
• works in a white collar profession
• is college educated
• can't wait to purchase his first home
• works to live… not lives to work

Romance, Sex & Emotions

My Perfect Man:

• insists on monogamy for both of us
• believes in moderation in all things except love and sex
• is emotionally capable of intense sexual intimacy in a loving relationship
• is loyal and honest in his relationships
• know all the words to ‘I Think I Love You’
• is both a giver and a taker in bed
• likes to mix it up a little under the covers… or on the table
• realizes that in the real world there aren't always fairy tale endings
• sweeps me off my feet

What I Want:

Like a letter to your perfect man…

• I want to take you to the deserts of Utah.
• I want to make love to you under the stars
• I want to make snow angels with you
• I want to know you… truly know you
• I want to have big happy family of friends…yours, mine….ours
• I want to sleep with my head on your chest
• I want to be able to feel vulnerable with you
• I want to show you the world

You Might Spot My Perfect Man:

• quietly reading the paper at a coffee house
• spending hours browsing at the book store
• on the local trails… hiking, biking or running
• sipping a martini at the new trendy club
• drinking Pabst at his favorite dive bar
• looking hot at the local swimming hole

My Perfect Man Will Love These Quirky Things About Me:

 I want a mate who will love the whole package that is me!

• I think too fast and talk too much
• I snore like a truck driver
• I sneeze at cats
• I unconsciously wring my hands
• I make unpleasant remarks to bad drivers
• I constantly bite the inside of my lip
• I sleep until noon on my days off
• I play gospel music at the crack of dawn
• I can be a little high maintenance at times

Why I Am A Catch:

• I know who I am
• I am capable of unconditional love
• I am nice to wake up to
• I work hard and play hard
• Snow makes me feel like a kid again
• I try to never take myself too seriously
• I am the quintessential “partner-in-crime”
• I like to watch the game too
• I have an arsenal of amazing lingerie
• I'm sassy
• I will make a great mother
• I have a sense of adventure